I don't know whether this is just me, probably isn't but here's the story.
Theres this girl that I've liked for some time and recently we've started clicking and she also recently broke up with her boyfriend. We started thinking about going out but today I randomly browsed onto her MySpace page for the first time in ages (as Facebook is now the way forward) and she had one of those quiz/survey things on her blog... except this one was about sexual exploits. Now I knew she'd have done stuff in the past, I'm not totally deluded, even though we'd never talked about that kind of thing. It's just seeing it written down with figures and positional preferences, and other such things, got me in such a rage it was silly; I was more angry than when i used to overdose on Red Bull and Pro Plus before I played an American Football match. At this point I just got up and went for a run.

I don't really need confirmation on what to do or anything because I can deal with it and I don't think this will be a problem for much more than a few days (and a fair few drinks), I was just wondering if anyone else reacts this way or anything, or how you'd feel if you got this sort of info.

P.S. Maybe you should just ignore me if I sound like I'm being a dick about it or whatever.

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I don't think your being stupid at all. I think that when someone genuinely likes someone else they have a tendency to want to keep them to themselves/ protect them. I mean even as a girl, if a guy I liked that put that up, that would make me jealous. Because even if you know they've been with other people it kind of puts it in your face and makes you acknowledge it. And it will probably go away, just don't look at her myspace =P. And your definitely not being a dick, if you were like 'I never wanna see this girl ever again, she's a whore' that would be being a dick. You even said yourself you'll get over it in some time with a few drinks =P. Makes you mature and I'd say you really like the girl. =)

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Bro just go for it you know... Tap that shit haha im jk man

i really don't know what to tell you just.. if you have to chance ask her out, cause i've blown my chances to ask out girls that i liked and they liked me back many times and i regret that it sucks

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Ya that feeling sucks.

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yeah man then you see her talking to new guys it just wrecks you, but you know what there are more fish in the sea.

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Thanks for the input people, the anger's subsided and you were right Nancy, I suppose it was the whole wanting to protect her thing... and then seeing that just gave me far too much information. Yeah I was thinking I'd leave it a couple of weeks before asking her out properly, just so I don't come off as trying to be a rebound or whatever. We go out quite alot, as friends, so it's not like I don't get to see her or anything and we talk pretty much everyday so we're alright for the moment. Any opinions on how long I should leave it? I'll probably try to just tell from her mood as at the moment she's pretty down, so I may just wait til she's a bit more her usual self; opinions?

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I think since you see her everyday/ talk to her she'll kind of give off a vibe when she's ready. It all depends on what the past relationship was like i.e. how it ended, how long they were together and what she wanted from it. If she's a good friend like you say, you'll know when she's ready. Just be patient and even if you ask her out, hopefully she says yes, but if she tells you she's not ready just give it time.

I think your handling the situation in the best way possible. =)

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Yeah, things took a turn for the worse last night. She asked me to come out to a bar with her and I said sure but then asked who was going; she listed a few randoms and then her ex's name appeared. So I got there and apparently they're back together, it was absolute torture with him sitting on her lap all night making out in the chair right next to me, so I just left after an hour or so. They apparently went majorly downhill and the breakup wasn't friendly at all but then after last night I don't know what to think. Safe to say I just sat there in almost total silence for the hour I was there, getting a little more pissed off as the minutes went by.

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holy shit robin I'm so sorry that sucks a shit load. maybe it was just a closing the deal kind of thing. I dunno what to tell you. You said that after you left it went downhill? Meaning the breakup is still off?... or. Oh man, nothing is worse than seeing that happen. Vouching for her I'd say that maybe she's still a little confused and seeing 'him', her ex, made it worse. But on the other hand w.t.f. for you. Love is a bitch. What are you gunna do? =S If you don't mind me asking.

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